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ONWE DAMIAN

Onwe Damian Chukwuemeka is a relationship writer, a law student and a student advocate. He was the former Deputy Director of Public Prosecution SUG, University of Calabar, Nigeria, and currently one of the Judges of the High Court of the Student Union Government, University of Calabar. Learn more about him

I’ve had countless conversations with women who feel baffled, confused, or even hurt by the behaviors of their partners. Some are unsure whether their man is truly invested in the relationship, while others are left questioning whether they’re just being “tested” or if there’s something deeper at play. Over the years of my work as …

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Originally, marriage is supposed to be a union of trust, loyalty, and respect for one another. But in real life, not every marriage is perfect, and some men even seek emotional relationships beyond their marriage. They confide in their mistresses things they would never say to their wives. These confessions are often marked by underlying …

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I recall my first-ever encounter with a person who made me see the magical strength of emotional bonds. It was not merely the attraction or superficial conversation, but there was something deeper. I began to feel like I was perceived, listened to, and comprehended in a different way like before. It was a bond that …

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Marriage is meant to be a partnership where both people feel loved, valued, and supported. But sometimes, one partner may start to feel disconnected, uncomfortable, or even ashamed of the relationship. If you’ve been sensing something’s off but aren’t sure what it is, you might be noticing subtle signs that your husband is secretly ashamed …

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Have you ever had a feeling that something is wrong with your marriage, but you can’t actually articulate what? Or perhaps you’ve seen that your husband is withdrawn or that he makes no attempt. This question as a relationship expert comes as a frequent question: “How do I know whether my husband is really serious …

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In relationships, things can get tricky when a husband has a close female friend. It’s normal to feel confused about where the line should be drawn, especially when you’re unsure whether it’s all innocent or if something deeper is going on. From experience, I’ve seen this situation in many relationships, and it’s awkward and confusing …

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As a relationship expert, I’ve had many conversations with women who struggle with self-esteem, especially around body image. One of the most common questions I get asked is, “Do guys care if you’re fat?” It’s understandable why this question weighs so heavily on so many women. Society places a lot of pressure on both men …

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We all go through moments when we feel discouraged — those times when it seems like everything is falling apart, and nothing is going right. Whether it’s a setback at work, a personal challenge, or simply a period of feeling stuck, discouragement can be overwhelming. But even in these tough moments, it’s important to remember …

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When it comes to relationships, the words we speak have a profound impact on our emotions. Over the years, I’ve worked with many couples, and one thing I’ve learned is how certain phrases can signal deeper issues. When a man begins to use hurtful or dismissive words, it often reflects more than just an argument; …

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Spirituality has always played a significant role in my life. It’s been the quiet force that helps me stay grounded, connect with something deeper, and find strength when things feel tough. I’ve learned that spirituality isn’t just about rituals—it’s about understanding my purpose, embracing change, and finding peace even in the chaos. For many of …

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Cheating is one of the most painful betrayals that can happen in a marriage. When trust is broken, it can feel like everything in the relationship shifts. While some men choose to work through the pain and try to rebuild the relationship, others might respond in ways that hurt their wives even more. If you’re …

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Marriage is supposed to be a partnership, where two people come together with respect, love, and equal footing. But what happens when things start to shift, and it feels like your husband is treating you less like a wife and more like a mother? It’s a tough pill to swallow, but recognizing the signs early …

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In a relationship, love should be built on trust, mutual respect, and a sense of freedom. But sometimes, one partner can begin to take control in a way that feels less like love and more like manipulation. In my relationship with my girlfriend, I’ve noticed behaviors that could easily cross the line into controlling. It’s …

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Divorce is often one of the most challenging experiences a woman can go through. It brings emotional, financial, and social upheaval, and while it marks the end of one chapter, it also opens the door to new opportunities for growth, self-discovery, and empowerment. As a relationship expert, I’ve seen how transformative divorce can be for …

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In any relationship, love, trust, and communication are the bedrock that keeps it strong. But what happens when those foundations begin to crack? When the person you’re supposed to share everything with starts to act in ways that leave you feeling isolated, confused, and emotionally drained? The truth is, emotional punishment can creep into a …

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As a relationship expert, I have worked with many individuals who unknowingly find themselves in toxic relationships, where emotional harm is not always apparent at first. One of the most devastating experiences is when the person who is supposed to be your rock—the one you trust the most—ends up causing you emotional pain. These signs …

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Have you ever found yourself in a relationship, or in a moment where you had to walk away—whether emotionally or physically? I’ve been there, and honestly, it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Walking away is never easy; sometimes, it’s driven by personal needs, frustration, or even confusion. But have you ever stopped …

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The beginning of a new school year is an opportunity to update your wardrobe. And 2025 is the year of finding the golden medium between the slick and comfortable clothing with the mix of vintage design and the new twist. Whether it is coastal cool, sporty prep or the rebirth of soft power suits, you …

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As summer comes to an end, it’s time to shift gears and prepare for a high-flying academic year. Whether you’re a parent, student, or teacher, getting into a back-to-school routine can make all the difference in ensuring a successful start to the new school year. Time management, low stress levels, increased productivity, and the energy …

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Have you ever had that disconcerting disengagement in a relationship? On paper, nothing is wrong, the texts are answered, the plans are discussed, but one thing or another does not feel right? The feeling of withdrawal of your partner without uttering a word? However, when you have been in a relationship and it eventually started …

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Travel to Copenhagen offers an enchanting blend of historic charm and modern Scandinavian cool. Copenhagen, as the capital city of Denmark, is reported to have infrastructure in the form of a bike-friendly infrastructure as well as an environmentally friendly transport system. Copenhagen has what it takes to offer to solo travelers, families on holiday, backpackers, …

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Planning to Italy? And then you are in a treat. This travel guide to Italy has everything you need — essential travel advice, must-see destinations, iconic cuisine, practical tips, and cultural etiquette to ensure your experience is not just good, but exceptional. Italy is not just a destination to travel to, but it is a …

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Travel insurance is now much more than preventive measure and it is also a safe guard which safeguards you against financial losses and also against stress in case plans go wrong. All inclusive plans have the ability to repay your pre-purchased travel expenses in case you want to cancel it and also provide medical travel …

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Divorce is a legal dissolution of a marriage, marking the end of a marital relationship and the corresponding legal responsibilities. It involves a variety of complex processes dictated by state laws, and it is essential to comprehend these legal implications when considering separation. Divorces can be classified mainly into two categories: contested and uncontested. A …

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When I first started working on myself, I had no idea what I was doing.I signed up for every class that said it would “change my life,” assuming that if I kept learning, I would ultimately understand everything. But what’s the truth?I was eating a lot but not making much progress. Some classes didn’t help …

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If you’ve ever caught yourself falling for baby names that sound like they belong in an old black-and-white movie, trust me — you’re not the only one. I’ve been noticing something lately. More and more people (myself included) are falling back in love with vintage names — you know, those classic, elegant names that once …

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I’ve seen it happen over and over — people stuck in relationships that slowly chip away at their happiness, their confidence, and their sense of self. And often, the root of it is narcissism.If you’re reading this, maybe you’ve already started to feel like something’s off in your relationship. Maybe you feel exhausted all the …

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I know how much a simple “good morning” text can brighten the man you love. That’s why I put together this list of sweet and heartfelt messages you can send to your husband to start his day with a smile. Whether you want to make him feel loved, motivated or simply let him know you’re …

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If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the years, it’s that teachers don’t just teach—they shape lives. You and I both know how much time, energy, and heart they pour into their students every single day. That’s why showing appreciation to teachers goes a long way. When you take a moment to say thank you—whether …

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Online dating has completely changed how people meet these days. For a lot of us guys, it’s gone from something you’d hear about once in a while to one of the main ways people start relationships today. I know how overwhelming it can feel when you first jump into it—but once you understand how the …

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If there’s one thing I’ve learned about attraction, it’s this: what people don’t say often speaks louder than their words. That’s where body language comes in. Whenever you’re trying to figure out if someone’s into you, paying attention to how they move, look, and act around you can reveal way more than any text message …

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I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about the complicated relationship between love and infidelity, and I’ve come to realize it’s not as black-and-white as we often want it to be. The truth is, a man can genuinely love his wife and still end up having an affair. I know that sounds contradictory, even uncomfortable, …

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I’ve spent a lot of time trying to understand why narcissists can leave a relationship so easily — and so fast. After dealing with one myself, I realized it’s not just about what happens on the surface. It goes much deeper than that. From my personal experience, below are a few reasons why narcissists move …

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Dating is a wild ride. Sometimes it’s amazing, sometimes it isn’t very clear, and sometimes it makes you seriously question your decision-making skills. I’ve been through a few highs and plenty of “what was I thinking?” moments, and I’ve learned that finding the right partner isn’t just about chemistry—it’s about paying attention to the red …

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Life can feel like one long episode of a stressful reality show. Between juggling work, bills, relationships, unexpected drama, and the occasional existential crisis at 3 a.m., it’s no wonder I’ve often found myself needing to hit the emotional reset button. For the longest time, I thought finding relief meant escaping my problems entirely. Spoiler …

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When I first started digging into the topic of narcissism, I was struck by how complicated it really is. Narcissism isn’t just about someone being full of themselves — it’s a deep personality trait that centers around an extreme focus on self and a constant craving for admiration. Psychologically speaking, it’s considered a serious disorder …

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When you’re trying to make sense of a toxic relationship with a narcissist, the question that often comes up is, why do narcissists end up hating their partners, the very people they once adored? Based on my research and experience writing about narcissistic behavior, several key psychological patterns explain this shift. If you’ve ever felt …

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