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50 Questions To Get To Know Your Kids

As parents, we always aim to understand our children. We want to know what they are feeling, what they want, and what they dream about.

We are the ones who will help them, be there for them, and protect them. We give them advice and show them the world. But have we been asking the right questions? Do we know how to get the information and truly connect with our kids?

Sometimes, when we are busy with our lives, we forget to slow down and ask them the important questions to better understand them. We want to offer you some ideas so you can easily start conversations with your children and get to know them. Here are 50 unique questions to ask your child:

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50 Questions To Get To Know Your Kids

50 Questions To Get To Know Your Kids

  1. What’s your perfect way to start the day?

  2. If you could add any rule to our house, what would it be?

  3. If you could create a holiday just for yourself, what would it be like?

  4. What’s the most fun thing you’ve ever done in school?

  5. What makes you feel the most brave?

  6. If you could change one thing about your school or class, what would it be?

  7. What’s your secret talent that no one knows about?

  8. If you could speak another language, which one would it be and why?

  9. What would you want to be remembered for when you grow up?

  10. What’s the hardest part about being a kid?

  11. Who’s the person you feel safest around, and why?

  12. What would your dream playdate look like?

  13. What’s something that makes you laugh really hard?

  14. What do you think the world will look like in 20 years?

  15. If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?

  16. What’s your favorite way to show someone you care about them?

  17. If you had to spend the entire day alone, what would you do?

  18. What’s the best gift you’ve ever received?

  19. If you could change the color of the sky, what color would you make it?

  20. If you were an animal, what would you be and why?

  21. What’s the most exciting adventure you could imagine?

  22. How do you like to relax after a busy day?

  23. If you could invent something to make life easier, what would it be?

  24. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go first?

  25. If you could ask any celebrity one question, what would it be?

  26. What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet?

  27. What’s the best thing you’ve ever done for someone else?

  28. How do you like to express yourself when you’re feeling happy?

  29. What’s your favorite thing about being part of our family?

  30. If you could only eat one meal for the rest of your life, what would it be?

  31. If you could swap places with anyone for a day, who would it be?

  32. What would your superpower be?

  33. What’s the best thing you’ve learned from a mistake?

  34. What makes you feel proud?

  35. What’s your favorite memory of us together?

  36. How do you like to help others?

  37. What’s something you’d like to teach me?

  38. If you could create your own theme park, what would it look like?

  39. What’s your favorite thing to do on the weekend?

  40. What’s your favorite season of the year, and why?

  41. If you could write a book, what would it be about?

  42. How would you describe your perfect day?

  43. If you could live in any time period, when would it be?

  44. What’s your biggest goal for the next year?

  45. What’s something you’re really good at but don’t get to do often?

  46. If you could live in any country, where would it be?

  47. What do you want to be when you grow up, and why?

  48. If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it?

  49. What’s your favorite thing to do when it’s raining outside?

  50. What would you do if you had a day where no one could tell you what to do?

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Conclusion

Asking meaningful and unique questions can help you understand your children on a new level. These 50 questions will help you build a relationship with your child, getting to know them on a deeper level.

The conversations that these questions will open up will allow you to create a lifelong connection with your child, giving you a different, more detailed, and profound insight into their personality, dreams, and fears.

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