ONWE DAMIAN

I know what you’re thinking: You don’t know me. You don’t know what I’ve been through. There are no words in any language to describe the hell I survived with her. So let me tell you what I know. I know you. I’ve been in your shoes. I’ve been through the abyss. I know what …

Every marriage is created in the name of peace. We all want a home where we can feel safe and secure, where we can laugh together and still find joy in the small things. We all long to be known by our spouse, to feel loved, wanted, cherished, and protected. We want a peaceful marriage. …

Marriage is all about humor. On long, grueling days, being able to share a laugh can make all the difference in the world. Laughter has a way of softening the roughest edges of any day. When you and your partner are laughing side by side, you feel closer than any roses or chocolate could ever …

Every marriage faces periods when we don’t feel listened to, noticed, or appreciated. We long for our partner’s attention, love, reassurance, and support. In some ways, that’s just human nature—our emotional needs aren’t a sign of weakness; they’re a natural part of relationships. But in many marriages, a healthy balance of needs and expectations can …

You can fake certain things in life, but you can’t fake being good in bed. If a man is good in bed, you sense it long before you ever get there. It’s in his movements, his listening skills, the way he looks at you, and the way he treats you when there’s no skin-to-skin contact …

There is a moment in life when you wake up to the fact that for years, you have been trying to be what everyone else needed you to be. You’ve been the dependable one, the listener, the problem-solver, the one who would always show up. You’ve given, compromised, and carried the weight of other people’s …

Have you ever had one of those days when nothing seems to go right? When the guy in front of you in traffic moves at a snail’s pace, your kitchen faucet drips incessantly, and the person next to you in the café chews with their mouth wide open? In moments like these, your good humor …

It sounds simple, right? You should just be the person you already are—the person you were born to be. But that’s where things get complicated, because being yourself is often harder than it looks. The world is loud, opinionated, and image-obsessed. It shouts in your ear about who to be, what to wear, what to …

If I were to guess, I would assume that most of us were taught at a very young age that putting other people first is the epitome of kindness, love, and humility. We were raised to believe that the selfless person is the one who deserves a medal. I was once taught that to love …

You cannot be abundant by merely accumulating things or having everything. It is also not about how well you perform at the end of the day, whether you have been promoted, found a new job, or earned a good title for the work you do. It is not what we often think it is. The …

It’s a question so simple that, when asked, most people look at you as if you’ve lost your mind: “What am I good at?” The truly sad thing is that most people never really figure it out. For many, life is just a long, drifting voyage from job to job, hobby to hobby, compare and …

Peace is a precious thing. It’s more valuable than attention, more worthy than an argument, and certainly worth more than a heated discussion over a minor detail. But to live at peace in a world that seems to love drama and chaos more than anything else can be nearly impossible. You open your social media, …

Marriage is life-changing. It reshapes how we view the world, love, and ourselves. It doesn’t make anyone wiser overnight, but it does reveal certain truths that often hide beneath romance, expectations, and independence. Ask most married people, and they’ll tell you they wish someone had explained these twelve things to them beforehand. Ask most single …

Not all compliments are created equal. At times, people disguise their envy, disapproval, or quiet criticism beneath a thin layer of politeness, dressing their true opinions in words that sound kind but carry an unpleasant undertone. These “backhanded compliments” can leave you suspended in confusion—partially flattered yet vaguely insulted. You smile out of courtesy, nodding …

Has anyone ever told you that a woman becomes almost sacred when she’s loved in the right way? I’m not talking about women who have grown soft because their partners’ sex drives are dwindling. I’m not talking about women who are losing themselves because their men treat them the way their grandfathers treated their grandmothers. …

Love is strange. One minute he’s making you feel on top of the world, the next he’s making you want to curl up and cry. One moment he’s all over you like white on rice—texting you sweet nothings, calling at all hours, spending all his free time with you. The next, he’s distant, unavailable, or …

It is one of the most important yet delicate elements in a relationship. And as women, we have the power to either build it up or break it down. Yet, sometimes we fail. Sometimes we let that power slip through our fingers. We forget who we are and what we can offer. We let the …

You never know when a guy will suddenly ask, “Do you have a boyfriend?” The question itself seems innocent enough, but when you stop and think about it, it can be loaded. Depending on who is asking, why he is asking, how he is asking, and what kind of connection you already have with him, …

Love isn’t always spoken in fireworks or perfect timing. It can live quietly in the everyday moments and in silence. A man may not always say the right things at the right time, but he will show you. Love reveals itself through what he does—how he listens, how he chooses you even in small ways. …

When done right, there’s no need to speak. Sometimes, a simple kiss can say it all. Slow, gentle, sweet, and calm—or quick, rough, hot, and desperate. Either way, kisses can express emotions when words cannot. The best ones make your heart race. You don’t need to understand why. You only need to let go and …

I hate to tell you this, but there are certain days when your favorite person on the face of this earth suddenly becomes your most annoying ex. You wake up and don’t know how you ended up in this mood, but you’re definitely there. He texts you “good morning,” and you roll your eyes so …

Fear of loss is not something people always express openly, especially with words. It is a silent feeling that must be read between the lines of her speech, her actions, and the subtle changes she may not even realize she’s showing. Sometimes, she will overcompensate and go to extremes just to make sure you will …

Lust isn’t about how a man looks; it’s about the way he looks at you, the way he talks to you, the way he walks through the world, the beliefs and morals he holds close to his heart, and the feelings he can evoke simply by being in the same space. Attraction is an emotional, …

In any relationship, there are things that are light, and then there are things that are… less light. Here are twelve things women do in relationships that can really bug their man. It’s a look at the uglier side of love. Now, don’t get defensive. By “uglier,” we’re not referring to evil, malevolent, or even …

Desire someone is an interesting thing. It’s not just about physical attraction or chemistry. It’s a cocktail of connection, mystery, and, most importantly, how you make a man feel when he’s around you. When a man truly wants you, it’s not only your beauty he falls for—it’s your energy, confidence, and the way his view …

You’ve just applied your new perfume for the day when he leans over and quietly tells you, “You smell good.” You know there’s something more to this comment than what he just said. Smell is personal. Scent has a way of stirring emotions, attraction, and memories—whether we want it to or not. It’s a hard …

A man who has an affair doesn’t just become more secretive—he starts telling stories. Affairs rarely last on chemistry alone. They thrive on words, false promises, and emotional manipulation. Mistresses, or any long-term lovers, often feel understood, accepted, and seen. They believe their lover is the only person who truly listens without judgment. This illusion …

Love is meant to bring serenity into the life of anyone in a relationship. So why is it that the person who claims to love you leaves you more confused than cherished? Words can sound sweet to the ears, but without truth behind them, they are nothing more than empty sounds. You come home from …

Love isn’t always a safe haven. When you truly care about someone, the ground beneath your feet can start to shift. Your feelings, the ones you thought were settled somewhere in your heart, become stretched between the fear of losing him and the depth of your devotion. It’s easy to lose sight of what he …

Relationships are complex even when both people are emotionally well-adjusted. But when you start dating someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), the emotional highs and lows can be intense, confusing, and deeply painful. BPD is a complex mental health condition characterized by unstable moods, an inconsistent sense of self, and difficulty maintaining relationships. People who …

Love isn’t always a fairytale—and it shouldn’t be. But it also shouldn’t feel like a twisted game where the rules keep changing. Many people say they want a serious relationship, yet they continue doing things that drive love away. It’s not always that love isn’t there; sometimes it’s right in front of you, but you’re …

Emotional pain is harder to deal with than physical wounds—the kind that comes from someone you thought loved you. The person you gave your heart to, who swore to protect and care for you. It’s a pain deeper than words can convey. It’s the feeling of waking up every morning next to the man who …

Love is a partnership. A place where you are cherished, celebrated, and respected. But even a strong partnership can become unbalanced. You start to feel invisible, unheard, or as though your efforts aren’t noticed or appreciated. The process is gradual and quiet: each day, a small sigh goes unacknowledged, a glance is missed, and a touch …

Love is supposed to be natural. It is not always easy, but in many ways it should feel effortless. When love is real, you do not have to beg for it, question it, or constantly try to prove yourself. Yet sometimes people stay in a relationship because they think they should—not because they want to, …

If you’ve ever doubted whether a man is truly interested in you, it’s normal to feel uncertain after becoming intimate with him. Whether you’ve been dating for weeks or only a few days, you might find yourself wondering, Did it mean he found me attractive? Let’s look at what sleeping with a man can actually …

Love is one of those words that people use frequently, but few can confidently define. It can feel like a warm rush in your chest, but it can also feel exciting, comfortable, confusing, or peaceful at different stages of a relationship. Sometimes it makes you want to say it aloud, and other times it leaves …

The world throws a lot at us. Traffic, bills, arguments, disappointment, the unknown. Sometimes, thinking positively sounds like a nice but naive dream—or maybe even an impossibility. In those moments, you want to be upset, or at least honest. A positive mindset isn’t about denial. It’s about facing your problems with a clearer head, calmness, …

Watching your child grow up and prepare to leave home is both exciting and a little terrifying. They might be heading off to college, starting a new job, or moving into their first apartment. Naturally, you want them to be prepared to handle life on their own. They’ll face many challenges, from academic and professional …

It’s 9:59 PM, and you’re sitting there, exhausted at your desk or on your couch, still staring at your computer screen. Does this scenario sound familiar? We’ve all been there before. Those last few hours before bedtime are powerful. They bridge the busyness of the day with the peaceful rest of the night. What you …

The space before sleep can be an underestimated superpower. The few minutes right before bed are what make or break your mornings, your sleep quality, your clarity, and your energy. We rush through the night—the evenings so easily become this thing we have to get through before we sleep. It’s unstructured and it’s hectic. We …

Life passes by in a flash. One day you are waiting for something to happen, and before you know it, another week, month, or year has already gone. So much time flies by, and sometimes it feels like you’re just existing without really living. We all want to feel that our days have purpose—but what …

Life reaches moments when you are bone-weary, yet everything seems “fine.” You’ve slept well enough, eaten well enough, and have the money you need to get by. But still, you do not feel full inside. Empty. It is not a physical hunger. It is spiritual. Each of us has a soul—the still place inside where …