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When I moved into my neighborhood the first time, I had a lot of nerves. It was like walking into an entire new world and I was all alone. Of course we all waved at each other, but I soon discovered that such kind of greeting would not do anything to make me belong to …

I can never forget when I visited my girlfriend for the very first time to see her house. I was anxious and simply wanted to present myself in the best possible light when, all of a sudden, her mom began questioning me. At first, I thought it was just small talk, but soon I realized …

One of the best parts of being in a relationship is the way it lets you truly connect with your partner, not just through the usual surface-level chats but through those deeper, more meaningful conversations. The ones where you feel vulnerable, open, and able to really share with each other. I had one of those …

One thing I’ve learned about connecting with someone is that deep conversations are the key. Not long ago, I had the chance to hang out with a book lover—someone who could easily lose herself in the world of words for hours. I’ve always enjoyed reading too, but that evening, I was determined to ask the …

When a man stops loving you, you will know. Having been in the field of relationships and counseling, I have met so many people who have approached me confused and devastated, not comprehending why their relationships have failed. A frequent theme that runs throughout is how love can gradually break up, and one area this …

It never crossed my mind. Initially, things went just right. She was adorable, loving, and everything I believed I wanted. However, over time, the divisions started to rise to the surface. The magic became a state of manipulation, control, and continuous emotional plays. She always appeared to be sorry, yet it never put me right …

Marriage is meant to be a partnership. It is the story of two individuals meeting and not only sharing a house but also lives, aspirations, and feelings. However, what if you begin to think that your partner is more of a roommate than a partner? You’ve likely spent some time there, at least in a …

One of the greatest things that I have come to appreciate as a relationship expert is the aspect of self-awareness in a marriage. At an early stage in my practice, I discovered that many of the couples I encountered tended to fall short not due to significant problems beyond resolution, but rather because of the …

As a relationship expert, one of the most profound lessons I’ve learned is how our bodies communicate with us. Often, we struggle to put our finger on what’s wrong in a relationship, even though something just doesn’t feel right. This can be because it’s not always a mental or emotional issue—sometimes, our bodies are telling …

As we all know, the modern lifestyle is very demanding. The modern lifestyle is very demanding and may even come at an expense of a quality night of sleep. With the demands of work, family and life, and the all-out distractions on our phones, a lot of us lie awake at night and think of …

Marriage is a wonderful experience which comes with all the ups and downs amongst others. However, what is common in the happiest marriages is the feeling of adoration between a wife and a husband. I would always find myself envying couples that have such an easy relationship where the husband not only loves his wife …

I am a relationship expert who has been privileged to listen to everyone and learn more after talking to so many couples. Over the years of my experience, I have found that fidelity is one of the most desired elements in marriage. But what makes a man loyal in a marriage? What are some of …

I have lived a moment in time when fear dictated all my choices. Whether it was as simple as raising my voice during a meeting or as serious as making a life decision, I was paralyzed with fear. It was not just the obvious fears like failure or rejection, but it was the ever-present fear …

There was a period in my life when I was totally out of touch. My thoughts raced one way and another, jerked around by the imperatives of life, and I felt like a robot, moving in patterns without any sense anymore. I felt like there was something wrong between who I am and who I …

As a relationship expert, I have been blessed to work with hundreds of couples, helping them gain insight into the silent changes that occur when one side of the bed feels unattended. Emotional neglect in a relationship does not usually appear as we imagine it. It is not necessarily screaming or open confrontation. At times, …

The mere presence of genuinely rich women in society has always fascinated me, no matter how inaudible it is. Whether it be in a fancy restaurant, at a charity ball, or down the street, they have the air about them. It is not the name of the designer label or even the fancy cars they …

We are going to talk about relationships now, OK? The relationships that are supposed to be full of life and the ones that pull the life out of you. I have been through relationship situations where it appeared to be the best thing possible in the beginning, and then I realized that the red flags …

I have always been fascinated with the dynamics of relationships, especially when they are difficult. A narcissistic relationship is one of the most toxic relationships I have encountered or experienced personally. Early on, you can fall into their world, where they are the center of the universe, everything bends around them, and you are but …

I never thought that I needed to go somewhere fancy or spend a lot to enjoy some quality time with a partner. Simple things at home can also be the most enjoyable moments. Whether you and your boy friend are long-term or starting dating, it is as fulfilling at the bedroom as it would be …

There was a time in my life when I felt utterly disconnected from God, despite doing all the “right” things. I was praying, reading my Bible, and attending church, but something was missing. It felt like I was going through the motions—checking off the spiritual boxes—but I wasn’t feeling the connection I longed for. I …

As a student, I often find myself reflecting on the teachers who have shaped my journey, not just academically, but also personally. Teachers are not just educators; they are mentors, guides, and motivators who ignite passion and curiosity in their students. In honor of Teacher’s Day 2025, I want to share some of the most …

There was a time when I had a massive crush on someone I worked with. Every time she walked into the room, I felt my heart race. I couldn’t help but wonder, “Does she even notice me? Does she like me back?” We’d have these casual conversations, but I never knew how to take things …

As someone who has spent years studying relationships and human behavior, I’ve come to realize that women often keep parts of their emotional world behind closed doors. Some actions or thoughts remain private, either out of fear of being judged or simply because they don’t feel the need to share. But here’s the thing: understanding …

Wondering how to restart your life? I’ve been there—stuck in a place where nothing felt right, wondering how I ended up so disconnected, uninspired, and drained. It’s a strange feeling when everything in your life seems to be happening to you, instead of you shaping your own path. I had a job that didn’t light …

All of us as parents have experienced this moment: you ask your kids to do something—anything, like playing with their toys, finishing their homework, or just listening to you—and they just look at you as though you were an insane person and continue acting the way they were before. It can be maddening, as it …

I’ve had countless conversations with women who feel baffled, confused, or even hurt by the behaviors of their partners. Some are unsure whether their man is truly invested in the relationship, while others are left questioning whether they’re just being “tested” or if there’s something deeper at play. Over the years of my work as …

Originally, marriage is supposed to be a union of trust, loyalty, and respect for one another. But in real life, not every marriage is perfect, and some men even seek emotional relationships beyond their marriage. They confide in their mistresses things they would never say to their wives. These confessions are often marked by underlying …

I recall my first-ever encounter with a person who made me see the magical strength of emotional bonds. It was not merely the attraction or superficial conversation, but there was something deeper. I began to feel like I was perceived, listened to, and comprehended in a different way like before. It was a bond that …

There’s something truly magnetic about a woman who carries herself with grace and elegance. It’s not just about the way she dresses or the way she speaks, but more about how she lives her life. A classy woman has a natural ability to make every room she enters feel a little brighter, all without lifting …

Marriage is meant to be a partnership where both people feel loved, valued, and supported. But sometimes, one partner may start to feel disconnected, uncomfortable, or even ashamed of the relationship. If you’ve been sensing something’s off but aren’t sure what it is, you might be noticing subtle signs that your husband is secretly ashamed …

Have you ever had a feeling that something is wrong with your marriage, but you can’t actually articulate what? Or perhaps you’ve seen that your husband is withdrawn or that he makes no attempt. This question as a relationship expert comes as a frequent question: “How do I know whether my husband is really serious …

In relationships, things can get tricky when a husband has a close female friend. It’s normal to feel confused about where the line should be drawn, especially when you’re unsure whether it’s all innocent or if something deeper is going on. From experience, I’ve seen this situation in many relationships, and it’s awkward and confusing …

As a relationship expert, I’ve had many conversations with women who struggle with self-esteem, especially around body image. One of the most common questions I get asked is, “Do guys care if you’re fat?” It’s understandable why this question weighs so heavily on so many women. Society places a lot of pressure on both men …

We all go through moments when we feel discouraged — those times when it seems like everything is falling apart, and nothing is going right. Whether it’s a setback at work, a personal challenge, or simply a period of feeling stuck, discouragement can be overwhelming. But even in these tough moments, it’s important to remember …

When it comes to relationships, the words we speak have a profound impact on our emotions. Over the years, I’ve worked with many couples, and one thing I’ve learned is how certain phrases can signal deeper issues. When a man begins to use hurtful or dismissive words, it often reflects more than just an argument; …

Spirituality has always played a significant role in my life. It’s been the quiet force that helps me stay grounded, connect with something deeper, and find strength when things feel tough. I’ve learned that spirituality isn’t just about rituals—it’s about understanding my purpose, embracing change, and finding peace even in the chaos. For many of …

Cheating is one of the most painful betrayals that can happen in a marriage. When trust is broken, it can feel like everything in the relationship shifts. While some men choose to work through the pain and try to rebuild the relationship, others might respond in ways that hurt their wives even more. If you’re …

Marriage is supposed to be a partnership, where two people come together with respect, love, and equal footing. But what happens when things start to shift, and it feels like your husband is treating you less like a wife and more like a mother? It’s a tough pill to swallow, but recognizing the signs early …

In a relationship, love should be built on trust, mutual respect, and a sense of freedom. But sometimes, one partner can begin to take control in a way that feels less like love and more like manipulation. In my relationship with my girlfriend, I’ve noticed behaviors that could easily cross the line into controlling. It’s …

Divorce is often one of the most challenging experiences a woman can go through. It brings emotional, financial, and social upheaval, and while it marks the end of one chapter, it also opens the door to new opportunities for growth, self-discovery, and empowerment. As a relationship expert, I’ve seen how transformative divorce can be for …

We’ve all been there, right? Those moments when it feels like the universe owes us something. Maybe it’s a little recognition for all the hard work we’ve put in, an apology for something that hurt us, or simply some simple respect. We get this feeling that we deserve more than what we’re getting, and it’s …

In any relationship, love, trust, and communication are the bedrock that keeps it strong. But what happens when those foundations begin to crack? When the person you’re supposed to share everything with starts to act in ways that leave you feeling isolated, confused, and emotionally drained? The truth is, emotional punishment can creep into a …