It can be a bit challenging to know where you stand with him sometimes, right? We understand that—especially if he’s not the most expressive person.
It could be that he’s not used to showing his feelings the way you do, or that he’s a bit shy and needs a little nudge. Or it could simply be that you’re both still figuring out where your relationship is going.
On the bright side, if you’ve been left wondering whether he secretly counts you as his number one person or not, we’re here to put an end to your questions. If you want to know whether you’re his favorite person, there are clear signs to look for.
There’s an unmistakable difference between someone being special and someone being the special one. And you might just be his special one.
If he wants to spend every waking minute with you, has no problem doing “nothing” with you, and values your opinion and your company above everyone else’s, you’re a top contender.
7 Signs You’re His Favorite Person
1. He Wants to Spend Time With You—Even Doing “Nothing”
This is a big one. If he genuinely likes being around you, nothing else matters. You could be sitting on his couch eating microwave popcorn and binge-watching random videos on YouTube, or picking up milk and cheese from the local grocery store—whatever it is, he’s just happy you’re there.
If he always seems to be “free” when you pop up, or he gets particularly enthusiastic when you ask him to hang out, that’s a good sign. If he often pushes meetings or changes plans because of you, that’s an even better one.
The truth is, this has very little to do with him wanting to treat you to an expensive dinner or fancy cocktails—even though he probably would.
He’s not looking for a good time. He’s looking for you.
It’s a simple equation with little to do with external factors like gifts or vacations. If he wants you around because he’s happiest when you are, and if he looks for opportunities to spend time with you in any capacity—even if you’re both just sitting on the couch staring at a blank screen—he’s yours.
In short: if he’d rather be bored with you than entertained without you, he definitely likes you.
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2. You’re the First Person He Tells Things To
When he gets good (or bad) news—whether it’s about work, family, or something that happened on his way home—who’s the first person he texts or calls?
If it’s you, and it happens consistently, it’s no coincidence. You’re his emotional priority—his safe place.
He wants to hear your reaction, know your thoughts, and share how he feels. Whether he texts you about a big achievement or sends a funny meme he thought you’d love, if you’re the first one he shares things with, he’s keeping you close.
That’s because sharing is caring. Everyone wants to share their world with someone who makes them feel heard and accepted.
And it’s not just about the big things. When someone feels that connection, they share naturally. He might call or text you at the end of the day just to say “hello” or “how are you?” Or send a random photo that reminds him of you.
He might also tell you small things before anyone else—so often that you can almost predict what he’ll share next. If that’s the case, you’re definitely his person.
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3. He Remembers the Little Things You Say
Watch how he reacts when you talk. Does he remember your favorite coffee order, or your love for the cartoons you watched as a kid? Does he bring up things you mentioned weeks—or even months—ago?
When we’re with our favorite person, we pay more attention. If he remembers the small things you say, it means he’s putting in the effort to be a better listener.
He might surprise you by wearing that shirt you once said you liked, or he might randomly bring up that weird inside joke you shared on your last date.
He won’t remember everything—and that’s okay—but when he’s trying, you’ll know.
It’s also a sign of how closely he listens and how much he wants to know you better. If he remembers the little things, it means you’re important to him.
And that’s how people become each other’s favorites—through a thousand small details that others wouldn’t even notice.
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4. He’s Comfortable Being Himself Around You
Have you noticed that he doesn’t hold back around you? Maybe he laughs at his own goofy jokes, talks about his insecurities, or calls just to tell you about something weird that happened with a friend.
If so, that’s because he feels totally at ease when he’s with you. If you’re his favorite person, he doesn’t feel the need to put on an act.
If he’s more vulnerable, silly, or expressive around you than anyone else—if he shouts random things just to make you laugh or acts like a goofball without embarrassment—that’s a clear sign.
Being his true self around you is a huge indicator of trust. It’s a kind of safety he feels that he may not get from anyone else.
He’s not afraid to show every side of himself—flaws, quirks, and all. If he overshares, makes up inside jokes, or exaggerates funny stories about the two of you, chances are, you’re his favorite person.
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5. He Includes You in His Future Plans
A guy who doesn’t take you seriously will hesitate to include you in anything meaningful. He won’t consider you part of his long-term life and won’t think of you when making future plans.
If he’s dating you but rarely initiates contact, never mentions “us” or “we” when talking about the future, or never includes you in his plans, that’s a red flag.
But if he brings up the future—and it casually includes you—you’re his person. He might talk about restaurants you should try, trips you could take, or events he wants to attend with you.
Bonus points if he mentions you (even casually) when talking to friends or family. That means he’s proud to have you in his life and sees you as part of his world moving forward.
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6. He Values Your Opinion (Even When You Disagree)
This one can be tricky because everyone’s different. But it’s always clear when someone genuinely respects and values you. It shows in the way they listen, respond, and react.
He’ll want your opinion on all kinds of topics, and he’ll actually want you to be honest—even when you disagree. He won’t try to pressure you into seeing things his way.
When you ask for his opinion, he’ll be as honest as possible but also give you space to express yourself. If you react emotionally, he’ll stay calm and try to understand where you’re coming from instead of getting defensive.
If he values your opinion even when you don’t see eye to eye, it’s a strong sign he takes you seriously.
7. You Can Feel It in the Way He Looks at You
Finally, sometimes you don’t need words—you just know.
It’s in the way he looks at you when you talk, laugh, or even when you’re doing nothing at all.
The way he smiles when he first sees you, the subtle eyebrow raise when you start talking, or the way his shoulders relax when you walk into the room—these things say more than words ever could.
When you’re his favorite person, you can feel it. The love, warmth, and unspoken understanding that you’re in the same emotional space—it’s something you sense deep down.
Bonus: You Bring Out the Best in Him
When you’re his favorite, you don’t just make him happy—you make him better.
This is the one thing you can’t fake. If he tells you about the ways he’s trying to improve because of you, or if he’s more motivated, calmer, or more emotionally open when you’re around—it’s real.
When someone inspires you to be your best self, it’s because they bring out the light you already have inside. If you see that in him, there’s no question—you’re his person.
Final Thoughts
Being someone’s favorite isn’t something that fades easily or can be explained away. It’s a space of emotional safety and vulnerability that few people can offer.
If he’s your person, he’ll be there for you. He’ll listen, make time for you, and show you that you matter—not through words alone, but through consistency and care.
And most importantly, he’ll make you feel like you’re irreplaceable—because to him, you are.
If you’ve noticed several (or all) of these seven signs, chances are, you’re not just someone he likes. You’re his favorite person.
Don’t worry—you’ll know it, and deep down, he will too.
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