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80 Spicy Hot Questions For Boyfriend

Have you ever wondered what goes on in your boyfriend’s mind? Sometimes, the best way to uncover his thoughts and add some spice to your relationship is by asking bold or spicy questions.

You’ll be amazed at how a few well-placed, playful questions can draw you closer together and bring a new level of excitement to your relationship.

How My Girlfriend Asked Me Spicy Hot Questions

I remember the first time my girlfriend sat me down and asked me some spicy hot questions. It was just an ordinary night—we were hanging out and having a casual conversation—when she decided to take things in a completely different direction.

We started off talking about everything, from childhood memories to some ridiculous plans for the future.

Suddenly, she hit me with a question that made my heart skip a beat. At first, I thought it was just another playful question, but the more she asked, the more I realized she was using it as a way to discover my deeper thoughts—while having a bit of fun at the same time.

The more we laughed, teased each other, and got personal, the more I realized that these questions were doing wonders for our connection.

They were playful, flirtatious, and, to be honest, a little steamy. So, I’ve compiled a list of 80 spicy hot questions to ask your boyfriend. Trust me, these will make sparks fly!

Related: 80 Hypothetical Questions For Boyfriend

80 Spicy Hot Questions for Your Boyfriend

  1. What’s the first thing you notice about me when I walk into a room?

  2. What’s your favorite thing about our relationship?

  3. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done in the bedroom?

  4. If you could take me anywhere in the world, where would we go?

  5. What’s your idea of a perfect date with me?

  6. What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to do with me but haven’t yet?

  7. Have you ever fantasized about us doing something wild together?

  8. What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done for someone?

  9. How do you feel when I wear something really sexy?

  10. What’s one thing about me that drives you crazy in a good way?

  11. If I asked you to take me somewhere spontaneous, where would we go?

  12. What’s your favorite thing to do with me when we’re alone?

  13. What’s something you love about my body the most?

  14. What would you do if you woke up and found me in bed beside you?

  15. How would you feel if I surprised you with something bold and unexpected?

  16. What’s one secret you’ve never told me but would like to?

  17. What’s the naughtiest thought you’ve ever had about me?

  18. How do you feel when we kiss? What’s your favorite type of kiss?

  19. What turns you on instantly?

  20. What’s your go-to move to make me smile?

  21. What’s the most fun we’ve ever had together?

  22. What makes our chemistry so strong in your opinion?

  23. What’s the most intimate thing we’ve done together?

  24. If I said I wanted to try something new, what would you suggest?

  25. If we spent an entire day together, what would you do first?

  26. What’s your favorite memory of us being intimate?

  27. If I wanted to be adventurous, what’s the first thing you’d suggest we do?

  28. Have you ever thought about us being together in bed?

  29. How do you like to cuddle with me?

  30. What’s your biggest dream for us as a couple?

  31. What do you love most about our physical connection?

  32. Do you prefer slow, sensual kisses or quick, playful pecks?

  33. What can I do to make you feel more desired?

  34. Do you think we could get even closer than we already are?

  35. What kind of touch do you find irresistible?

  36. What’s the best way you’ve found to make me laugh during a heated moment?

  37. What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done for love?

  38. What would you think if I surprised you by wearing only your favorite T-shirt?

  39. What’s the most exciting part of a relationship to you?

  40. How do you feel about sharing secrets with me?

  41. What’s your idea of a naughty surprise for me?

  42. How do you feel when I get close to you, especially when we’re alone?

  43. What’s your favorite way to tease me?

  44. If I gave you the choice between a lazy night in or an exciting night out, which would you choose?

  45. Do you like it when I send you flirty texts?

  46. What’s one thing you wish I knew about your desires?

  47. How do you feel when I wear something sexy for you?

  48. Why do you think our relationship is better than others?

  49. What’s the most surprising thing I’ve done to turn you on?

  50. What’s the sexiest outfit you’ve ever seen me wear?

  51. How do you feel about us discussing our future together?

  52. What’s your favorite kind of foreplay with me?

  53. What’s something you want to do together that we haven’t yet?

  54. How would you set the mood for a romantic evening in?

  55. Do you think there’s a way for us to get even closer than we already are?

  56. How do you make me feel special?

  57. What would you do if I kissed you right now?

  58. Ever thought about us going out with no plan at all?

  59. What’s one thing you want to do with me once?

  60. How do you feel when I do something romantic for you?

  61. What’s one thing I could wear that would drive you wild?

  62. If we had a vacation just for the two of us, what would we do first?

  63. What’s something you’ve always wanted to tell me but never did?

  64. What’s the most surprising thing you find sexy about me?

  65. What would it mean for you to see a different side of our relationship?

  66. What’s the funniest sexual adventure we could have together?

  67. How can we make our relationship even more fun and exciting?

  68. What’s your favorite way to express your love to me?

  69. If you could plan our night, what would you do?

  70. How do you feel when I show affection around other people?

  71. What’s the smallest thing I do that turns you on?

  72. What’s the most fun you’ve ever had with me?

  73. Do you think we’ll ever surprise each other with something new?

  74. What would you love to see me do during a romantic evening?

  75. How do you feel when I wear your clothes or jewelry?

  76. What’s something we do that no one else knows about?

  77. How do you feel about showing affection in public?

  78. What makes your heart race when we’re together?

  79. How would you feel if I sent you a flirty text out of the blue?

  80. What’s the next step you think we should take in our relationship?

Related: 35 Odd Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Closing Thoughts

Spicy hot questions can bring you and your boyfriend closer in an exciting, playful, and meaningful way. They give you the opportunity to bond on a deeper level and make your relationship even more thrilling.

Whether you want to spice things up in the bedroom or simply learn something new about each other, these questions are perfect for any occasion!

So, the next time you want to spice things up, grab your boyfriend, ask him a few of these spicy hot questions, and enjoy the conversation that follows. You never know where it might lead!

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