How to propose to your girlfriend

 Trust is an essential ingredient in any worthwhile relationship. It’s the glue that holds two individuals together, the magic that allows them to open up to each other and share their thoughts, secrets, and vulnerabilities. But when that trust is broken, it feels as though the rug has been ripped out from under your feet. …

Love doesn’t usually come with a drumroll. It creeps up slowly, sometimes shakily, and is usually signaled through actions rather than words. He may not tell you that he loves you early on, but if you know what to look for, his actions will tell you exactly how he feels. When a man truly loves …

Breakups have a funny way of rattling even the most self-assured person’s identity. One day, you are part of a “team” that is loved (or so you thought), and the next, you are alone with a million questions no one can seem to answer. It doesn’t matter who ended it or why. It doesn’t matter …

I know what you’re thinking: You don’t know me. You don’t know what I’ve been through. There are no words in any language to describe the hell I survived with her. So let me tell you what I know. I know you. I’ve been in your shoes. I’ve been through the abyss. I know what …

Long-term friendships are the type of bonds that almost anyone hopes to have in life. These are the connections we build over the years, filled with shared memories, experiences, and mutual understanding. They’re rare and hard to come by, which is why we hold onto them so tightly. However, as we grow, move on, or …

When a man chooses to fully commit to his wife, it shows not only in his words but in his actions and daily habits. It is a decision made every morning to love her through consistency, choice, and quiet presence. Commitment in marriage is not something you declare once on your wedding day and leave …

Competition is an inescapable part of our lives, from the playground to the boardroom. We’re surrounded by it all day long—from family dinners to the office coffee break. Competition can be healthy and motivating. It pushes us to run faster, study harder, and build better. But competition is a two-way street. Just as often, it …

Maybe you’ve looked around your home and felt dismay at the number of belongings you own. Or perhaps your struggle isn’t with the amount of things you have, but with the value you attach to them. You’re holding on to a lot of stuff—things that aren’t worth keeping. You may even recognize the problem as …

Being comfortable in your own skin is one of the most freeing feelings in the world. It means finally being at peace with yourself, no longer needing to hide, compare, or apologize for the way you exist. However, this level of comfort is not easily achieved. It is a process that takes time, awareness, and …

Not all men can say “I’m sorry.” For some, they didn’t grow up with a model at home who used apologies as a tool for self-reflection. For others, apologizing feels like confessing weakness or vulnerability, so they find other ways to express remorse. It’s not that they don’t regret their mistakes or actions—they do—but many …

Rarely does marriage end in a single event. It is far more common for a marriage to die slowly. Love begins to fade, strangled by the lies we allow ourselves to believe and smothered by days of resentment, burnout, and unmet needs. When your husband stops fighting for your marriage, it doesn’t always involve yelling …

Affairs don’t happen because a person looks in the mirror one day and decides they’re ready to hurt someone. More often than not, they begin as a slow and steady distancing—a lack of intimacy, unmet needs, boredom, or sadness. The point is, it rarely happens overnight. If it did, it would be simpler. If a …

Every marriage is created in the name of peace. We all want a home where we can feel safe and secure, where we can laugh together and still find joy in the small things. We all long to be known by our spouse, to feel loved, wanted, cherished, and protected. We want a peaceful marriage. …

Marriage is all about humor. On long, grueling days, being able to share a laugh can make all the difference in the world. Laughter has a way of softening the roughest edges of any day. When you and your partner are laughing side by side, you feel closer than any roses or chocolate could ever …

Every marriage faces periods when we don’t feel listened to, noticed, or appreciated. We long for our partner’s attention, love, reassurance, and support. In some ways, that’s just human nature—our emotional needs aren’t a sign of weakness; they’re a natural part of relationships. But in many marriages, a healthy balance of needs and expectations can …

You can fake certain things in life, but you can’t fake being good in bed. If a man is good in bed, you sense it long before you ever get there. It’s in his movements, his listening skills, the way he looks at you, and the way he treats you when there’s no skin-to-skin contact …

There is a moment in life when you wake up to the fact that for years, you have been trying to be what everyone else needed you to be. You’ve been the dependable one, the listener, the problem-solver, the one who would always show up. You’ve given, compromised, and carried the weight of other people’s …

Have you ever had one of those days when nothing seems to go right? When the guy in front of you in traffic moves at a snail’s pace, your kitchen faucet drips incessantly, and the person next to you in the café chews with their mouth wide open? In moments like these, your good humor …

It sounds simple, right? You should just be the person you already are—the person you were born to be. But that’s where things get complicated, because being yourself is often harder than it looks. The world is loud, opinionated, and image-obsessed. It shouts in your ear about who to be, what to wear, what to …

If I were to guess, I would assume that most of us were taught at a very young age that putting other people first is the epitome of kindness, love, and humility. We were raised to believe that the selfless person is the one who deserves a medal. I was once taught that to love …

You cannot be abundant by merely accumulating things or having everything. It is also not about how well you perform at the end of the day, whether you have been promoted, found a new job, or earned a good title for the work you do. It is not what we often think it is. The …

It’s a question so simple that, when asked, most people look at you as if you’ve lost your mind: “What am I good at?” The truly sad thing is that most people never really figure it out. For many, life is just a long, drifting voyage from job to job, hobby to hobby, compare and …

Peace is a precious thing. It’s more valuable than attention, more worthy than an argument, and certainly worth more than a heated discussion over a minor detail. But to live at peace in a world that seems to love drama and chaos more than anything else can be nearly impossible. You open your social media, …

Marriage is life-changing. It reshapes how we view the world, love, and ourselves. It doesn’t make anyone wiser overnight, but it does reveal certain truths that often hide beneath romance, expectations, and independence. Ask most married people, and they’ll tell you they wish someone had explained these twelve things to them beforehand. Ask most single …

Not all compliments are created equal. At times, people disguise their envy, disapproval, or quiet criticism beneath a thin layer of politeness, dressing their true opinions in words that sound kind but carry an unpleasant undertone. These “backhanded compliments” can leave you suspended in confusion—partially flattered yet vaguely insulted. You smile out of courtesy, nodding …

Has anyone ever told you that a woman becomes almost sacred when she’s loved in the right way? I’m not talking about women who have grown soft because their partners’ sex drives are dwindling. I’m not talking about women who are losing themselves because their men treat them the way their grandfathers treated their grandmothers. …

Love is strange. One minute he’s making you feel on top of the world, the next he’s making you want to curl up and cry. One moment he’s all over you like white on rice—texting you sweet nothings, calling at all hours, spending all his free time with you. The next, he’s distant, unavailable, or …

It is one of the most important yet delicate elements in a relationship. And as women, we have the power to either build it up or break it down. Yet, sometimes we fail. Sometimes we let that power slip through our fingers. We forget who we are and what we can offer. We let the …

You never know when a guy will suddenly ask, “Do you have a boyfriend?” The question itself seems innocent enough, but when you stop and think about it, it can be loaded. Depending on who is asking, why he is asking, how he is asking, and what kind of connection you already have with him, …

Love isn’t always spoken in fireworks or perfect timing. It can live quietly in the everyday moments and in silence. A man may not always say the right things at the right time, but he will show you. Love reveals itself through what he does—how he listens, how he chooses you even in small ways. …

When done right, there’s no need to speak. Sometimes, a simple kiss can say it all. Slow, gentle, sweet, and calm—or quick, rough, hot, and desperate. Either way, kisses can express emotions when words cannot. The best ones make your heart race. You don’t need to understand why. You only need to let go and …

I hate to tell you this, but there are certain days when your favorite person on the face of this earth suddenly becomes your most annoying ex. You wake up and don’t know how you ended up in this mood, but you’re definitely there. He texts you “good morning,” and you roll your eyes so …

Fear of loss is not something people always express openly, especially with words. It is a silent feeling that must be read between the lines of her speech, her actions, and the subtle changes she may not even realize she’s showing. Sometimes, she will overcompensate and go to extremes just to make sure you will …

Lust isn’t about how a man looks; it’s about the way he looks at you, the way he talks to you, the way he walks through the world, the beliefs and morals he holds close to his heart, and the feelings he can evoke simply by being in the same space. Attraction is an emotional, …

In any relationship, there are things that are light, and then there are things that are… less light. Here are twelve things women do in relationships that can really bug their man. It’s a look at the uglier side of love. Now, don’t get defensive. By “uglier,” we’re not referring to evil, malevolent, or even …

Desire someone is an interesting thing. It’s not just about physical attraction or chemistry. It’s a cocktail of connection, mystery, and, most importantly, how you make a man feel when he’s around you. When a man truly wants you, it’s not only your beauty he falls for—it’s your energy, confidence, and the way his view …

You’ve just applied your new perfume for the day when he leans over and quietly tells you, “You smell good.” You know there’s something more to this comment than what he just said. Smell is personal. Scent has a way of stirring emotions, attraction, and memories—whether we want it to or not. It’s a hard …

A man who has an affair doesn’t just become more secretive—he starts telling stories. Affairs rarely last on chemistry alone. They thrive on words, false promises, and emotional manipulation. Mistresses, or any long-term lovers, often feel understood, accepted, and seen. They believe their lover is the only person who truly listens without judgment. This illusion …

Love is meant to bring serenity into the life of anyone in a relationship. So why is it that the person who claims to love you leaves you more confused than cherished? Words can sound sweet to the ears, but without truth behind them, they are nothing more than empty sounds. You come home from …

Love isn’t always a safe haven. When you truly care about someone, the ground beneath your feet can start to shift. Your feelings, the ones you thought were settled somewhere in your heart, become stretched between the fear of losing him and the depth of your devotion. It’s easy to lose sight of what he …

Relationships are complex even when both people are emotionally well-adjusted. But when you start dating someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), the emotional highs and lows can be intense, confusing, and deeply painful. BPD is a complex mental health condition characterized by unstable moods, an inconsistent sense of self, and difficulty maintaining relationships. People who …

Love isn’t always a fairytale—and it shouldn’t be. But it also shouldn’t feel like a twisted game where the rules keep changing. Many people say they want a serious relationship, yet they continue doing things that drive love away. It’s not always that love isn’t there; sometimes it’s right in front of you, but you’re …