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100 Questions To Ask Your Crush To Get To Know Them

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The feelings of having a crush can be so exciting. But it is normal to feel nervous while speaking with your crush. Sometimes, you tend to lose your words when you’re trying to get to know them better. But that shouldn’t bother you as I have compiled a list of 100 questions to ask your crush.

According to an expert on sex, Shan Boodran, one of the importance of asking questions to your crush is that “it reveals things about your values, morals, lifestyles, long-term goals, short-term goals, and more. And these questions can show whether this person is right for you. Not only that, but they are capable of creating a feeling of love and intimacy between people who barely know each other.”

Here are some flirty, dirty, cute, hot, deep, romantic, funny, interesting and random questions to ask your crush to spark a good connection and to help you know whether they like you. These questions shouldn’t be asked only when you are on a date with them. You can throw these questions at them while texting each other.

100 Questions to ask your crush

Deep Questions To Ask Your Crush

01. What is the source of your income?

It is pretty good to know what your could-be partner does for a living. Asking this question will help you to understand more about the type of person your crush is, and whether they’re right for you or not. Not only that, but it will boost your confidence to introduce him or her to your friends since you already know a little about this person.

02. What are your ambitions in life?

It is good to understand whether your could-be partner even has plans for the future. That is why this deep question is necessary to know the type of future they want for themselves. You can also ask them this question this way-where do you think you will be in ten years’ time?

03. What are you passionate about?

Do you think you are compatible with your crush? Ask them about their hobbies and interests. This will help you to figure out whether you share the same passion with them. Although it may not matter so much to you, compatibility is necessary for a relationship to work.

Related: Signs your crush is jealous

04. Do you live alone?

Do you think your could-be partner can take care of you as a woman? Or as a man, do you think she will have the time to go on a date with you? That is where this question comes in. It helps you to know whether your crush will be able to meet up with your needs. Whether financial needs or the need of going on a date with them. If his parents are the ones feeding and taking care of his bills, he may not be capable enough to take proper care of you. On the other hand, if she stays with her parents, do not expect her to always say ‘yes’ anytime you ask for a date because she may not have the time. Although this varies in some countries.

05. What is your ideal partner?

Are there some qualities your crush is looking for in a partner? You will never figure out if you don’t ask this question. It helps you to know your chances of making your crush fall in love with you. He or she will like you back if they see that you have the attributes they want in a potential partner.

06. At what age do you intend to marry?

Do you want to figure out if your crush has future plans for marriage? Ask them the age they would like to get married. Not only is this question very interesting, but it will also keep the conversation going.

07. Are there present suitors?

Do you intend to marry your crush but don’t know your chances? Ask her this question and her response to those suitors. It will help you to know whether she is willing to wait for you or not.

08. How do you express anger?

Knowing how your partner expresses their emotions can be a way to get to know your crush better. To get the best out of this question, ask them the first thing they do when they get angry. How long does it take for them to be calm? etc.

09. What inspires you most?

It is always good to know the strength behind whatever your partner does. That is why you need to ask your crush this question to know what motivates them even when they are in their blues (sad or depressed). This tells you more about their strengths and weakness.

10. Are there things you are not willing to give up in your life?

This is a way to understand what he or she holds so dear that they cannot afford to lose it. It can be their job, their phone, their religious belief, their smoking or drinking habits, I don’t know. Just ask them to know more. Knowing these will help you to set clear boundaries around those things he or she values most.

Flirty Questions To Ask Your Crush

11. Why is your smile so special?

12. Do you have a special name?

13. Which type of partner do you think I will be?

14. If you are to marry today, who will you marry?

15. Have I ever made you jealous before?

16. Have you had a crush before?

17. Have you ever fallen madly in love before?

18. What are the things you like about me?

19. Have you ever dreamed about me before?

20. Which of these is hard for you to say ‘I love you,’ ‘I miss you,’ ‘I need you,’ ‘Please forgive me,’ or ‘I need your help?

21. Have you ever had a kiss before?

22. Who do you tell your secrets to, male or female friends?

23. Have I ever made you feel special before?

24. Is there anything you find attractive in me?

25. What attracts you most to the opposite sex?

26. What is the highest sacrifice you have ever done for a loved one?

27. Have you ever had my thoughts in your heart for the whole night that you couldn’t sleep?

28. What makes you look so fresh?

29. What type of friend am I to you? Casual friend? Best friend? or Special best friend?

30. What are the sweet words you would like to hear every day?

Read also: 55 Crush Quotes To Help You Express Your Feelings In Words

Funny Questions To Ask Your Crush

31. What is the most delicious food you have ever eaten in your dream?

32. What is the most embarrassing moment in your life?

33. What is the craziest thing you have ever done in your life?

34. If I’m to change to something else, what would you want me to turn into?

35. At what age did you lose your first teeth?

36. When was the last time you fought with someone?

37. Have you ever been so hungry that you remembered all the best foods you have eaten so far?

38. Have you ever had a dream that you wished you never woke up, and what was the dream about?

39. Have you ever toasted your crush before?

40. How do you look in your childhood picture- beautiful/handsome or ugly?

42. Has your clothes ever embarrassed you in public before?

43. How often do you snub people on your social media accounts?

44. How often do you sing in the bathroom?

45. What is the most stubborn thing you have ever done?

46. What is the funniest trick you have ever done on someone?

47. How many hours do you spend in the toilet?

48. What is the one thing you forgot at home that almost embarrassed you in the public?

49. Do you ever smell your clothes before washing them?

50. Can you watch a horror movie alone at night?

Romantic Questions To Ask Your Crush Over Text

51. How do you feel when you are around your crush?

52. Which word do you want to hear right now?

53. What colour attracts you most?

54. Where was the best vacation trip you have ever had?

55. What is the sweetest text you have ever received and from who?

56. What constitutes a perfect date?

57. What does love mean to you?

58. What part of the body attracts you most?

59. What is your favourite flower?

60. What is your favourite song you can dedicate to your loved one?

61. Who would you like to spend your day with on a rainy day?

62. What is your favourite perfume?

63. How do you get warmed when the weather is cool?

64. Which food do you love cooking most?

65. What memories always left you smiling?

66. What is the best surprise you have ever received?

67. What makes you look so fresh and charming every day?

68. Where was the first place you were told I love you and who was that?

69. What is your dream honeymoon?

70. When is the happiest day in your life and what happened that day?

Juicy Questions To Ask Your Crush

71. Where did you have your first kiss?

72. What is the first thing you do when you feel horny?

73. What is the most sensitive part of your body?

74. Which word will you never want to hear from a loved one?

75. How many keys do I need to open your heart?

76. Do you easily fall in love?

77. Have you ever missed me before?

78. What always reminds you about me?

79. What is the first thing you do when you feel lonely?

80. What is the most romantic word someone has ever told you?

81. What name did you save my number with?

82. When was the last time you had a dream about me?

83. Have you ever experienced true love before?

84. Which day of the week do you love most?

85. What is your favourite romantic movie?

Random Questions To Ask Your Crush

86. Which celebrity do you wish to get married to?

87. If you win a lottery now, what is the first thing you will do?

88. When was the last time we had an interesting conversation?

89. What have you observed about me?

90. Are there things you would want me to change about myself?

91. If you are to give out something now, what would it be?

92. Whose profile do you check first whenever you go online?

93. What is your best birthday cake?

94. Which of these do you prefer most- books, music or movie?

95. What is the most annoying thing to you?

96. How many hours do you spend on social media every day?

97. What is the best city you have ever visited?

98. Have you ever waited for a friend to come online until you slept off?

99. Who do you love most in your family and why?

100. Which of your childhood experience will you never forget?


100 Get to know you questions to ask your crush

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I am Onwe Damian Chukwuemeka, the brain behind this blog. I'm a passionate writer who loves everything about relationships, quotes, and self-improvement tips for personal growth.


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