15 Signs He Thinks About You A Lot But Is Trying To Hide It

When you like a guy and want to know how he feels about you, you will be looking for signs he thinks about you a lot. We all have crushes, and we feel good when they think about us. But how do you know if someone is thinking about you?

It is normal to want to figure out if your crush has you in mind the way you think about them. We all want to know how much we mean to someone we like, and how they feel about us. But you don’t have to wait until they tell you, you can always figure it out through their actions, behavior, or body language.

There are certain ways a guy will act and you will know you always preoccupy his mind. These signals tell you he really likes you but might be trying to hide it. That is why you have to make a guy admit he likes you if you want to know how he feels about you.

Most guys are good at hiding their emotions but their actions will always tell what goes on in their minds. Although, they may not know they are sending the right signals to help you identify how they feel about you. This post is here to answer the question ‘how do you know if someone is thinking about you constantly?

What does it mean when a man thinks about you all the time?

When a man is constantly thinking about you, it is a sign he likes you. We all think about someone we like. And when those thoughts are not under our control, we become obsessed with our crush. Here is my previous post on how to make a guy obsessed with you.

How do I know if he is thinking about me? Here are 15 signs to look out for.

Signs he thinks about you a lot

1. He often reaches out to you

The first sign that tells a guy is constantly thinking about you is that he often reaches out to you. It can be through text messages, phone calls, or online chats. If he calls or texts you every day just to hear from you, it is a big sign he thinks about you a lot.

2. He wants to see you

When you’re always in a guy’s mind, he will want to see you, especially when he starts missing you. For example, he asks for a video call or to meet you in person.

3. He tells you he is missing you

Another way to tell if a guy is thinking about you is that he tells you he is missing you. You don’t just miss someone without thinking about them. It is only when you always have someone in mind that you will start to miss everything about them.

Related: How to make a guy miss you

4. He tells you how he feels about you

Has your guy crush ever told you something like ‘I have a strong feeling for you or you are always in my mind? These are words that will come out of a guy’s mouth if he constantly thinks about you. He is saying those words because you have preoccupied his thoughts.

5. He reminds you of old memories

If your guy often reminds you of the memories you shared with him, he thinks about you a lot. For example, he sends you pictures you have forgotten. This shows he often goes through your pictures on social media, each time he has you in mind.

Related: How to test a guy to see if he truly loves you

6. He tries to impress or make you happy

Most surprise gifts you receive from guys only come when they often think about you. A guy will want to make you happy if he thinks about you always. For example, he sends you data or airtime, a flower or any other thing he knows will make you happy.

7. He sends you a love note

Another sign that tells a guy thinks about you always is that he sends you love notes, especially if your relationship has gotten to that level. He sends you good morning messages in the morning to wake you up, and good night love notes to wish you a calm night. No guy will do that he if doesn’t think about you.

Related: Signs he misses you during no contact

8. You can’t stop thinking about him

Sometimes, when you can’t stop thinking about someone, it means they are also thinking about you. So, you will know if a guy thinks about you all the time if you often find yourself getting obsessed with him. Even if you are not obsessed with him, you often think about him. This is a sign he is also thinking about you.

9. You dream about him

Most times when you dream about your crush, nature is trying to tell you that they often think of you. So, if you always see your boyfriend in your dream, it may be that he is thinking about you.

Related: Signs a guy wants to date you

10. He gets curious about you

If a guy often tries to know much about you or even asks you deep questions, it is also a sign that he constantly thinks about you. For example, he asks about your whereabouts and your plans for the day or weekend.

11. He can’t wait to see you

If you notice that a guy always looks forward to seeing you, it is a sign he thinks about you a lot. When a guy often has you in mind, he will always be happy to meet you or will often look forward to being with you.

Related: Signs he wants you to leave him alone

12. He often starts unnecessary fights with you

Does your boyfriend often start unnecessary fights with you? It is a sign he thinks about you always. It is this thought that makes him come up with all manner of opinions about you. For example, he accuses you of having affairs or not calling him, or showing concern for him. He is not just doing it to make you feel bad. But you occupy his thoughts always.

Related: Signs he will never commit to you

13. He gets jealous

Everything I have discussed in this post is from my personal experience with my girlfriend. I discovered that each time I find myself getting jealous in my relationship, I think about my girlfriend a lot. So, if you find out that your boyfriend is always jealous, he constantly thinks about you.

Related: How to make a guy jealous

14. He gets emotional

Sometimes you will discover that someone is thinking about you based on their reaction or attitude toward you. For example, he easily gets upset with you. This is a sign he has you in his mind always. And any little mistake from you makes him feel bad.

Related: Signs he really cares about you

15. He texts you late at night

What are signs he thinks about me at night? He texts you late at night. This is a sign he can’t remove his mind away from you. And sometimes, he will even tell you that he can’t sleep. All these show you’re always the person he thinks about, every day.

Related: How to tell if a guy likes you

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