Will he ever commit? Do you want to know if a man is not serious about you? Here are 10 obvious signs he will never commit.
When you want to know how serious a guy is about you, you will be looking for signs he will never marry you. These signals show a man will not take a further step to ensure you become his wife.
It is normal to start wondering if a guy will ever commit after dating him for some months or even years and he doesn’t seem to talk about taking the relationship to the next level. Isn’t that enough to make you believe that he’s not serious about you? Here are some signs that tell he won’t commit.
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Signs He Will Never Commit
1. He doesn’t make plans with you
One of the ways to know if a guy isn’t ready to commit to you is that he takes decisions alone. He doesn’t seem to involve you in certain things he does nor seek your opinion. Not only that but you are not included in any of his plans for the future. This shows that he is not ready to commit to marrying you.
2. He cancels dates without reason
He goes on a date with you anytime he feels like it but cancels yours without any reason. This shows he doesn’t seem to make himself available whenever you need him but wants you around whenever he needs you. Does this not tell you that he’s using you and won’t commit?
Related: Signs he doesn’t love you anymore.
3. He told you he’s not ready for a committed stage
Did he tell you blatantly that he’s not ready to commit now? If he’s not ready to take the relationship to the next stage now, when will he? This is a sign he’s not going to commit even in years to come. So, stop wasting your time with him.
Related: Signs he wants to break up with you.
4. He has never introduced you to his family
This is another obvious sign he’s not going to spend the rest of his life with you. If he’s ready for a serious relationship, he should have introduced you to his friends and family by now.
Related: 10 Signs he will propose very soon.
5. He doesn’t care to know much about you
A guy who is not ready to commit to you will never bother knowing much about you. He doesn’t seem to ask you questions to get to know you. This is a sign he is not interested in anything that concerns your future with him. If not, he would have wanted to know more about you. Here is my previous post that tells a guy cares so much about you.
Related: Signs he wants to date you
6. You don’t know what his plans are
A guy who wants to commit doesn’t hide secrets from you. He shares his plans with you and tries to also know what your plans are. Furthermore, he has never said anything (even in a joke) about him having a future together with you. He doesn’t even joke about getting married to you or having kids with you. Rather, he tells you he has plans for you but doesn’t seem to discuss that with you.
Related: Signs he will soon propose to you
7. He cheats on you
Has he cheated on you before or still cheats? It’s another indication that he is not ready for commitment in your relationship. A guy who wants to marry you or commit will try his best to stay faithful to you. Men who will commit to you stay loyal to you until you leave together as husband and wife. But if he is always cheating, it is a great indication that he is not going to commit to you.
Related: 10 Signs he will cheat again
8. He has many exes
Have you considered his past relationships? Why did he end those relationships? How many exes does he have? This is a sign you will soon join the ex list because he never committed to any of those relationships. Here is my previous post on how to test if a guy likes you and the signs you are dating a player.
9. He has stopped chasing you
A guy who wants to commit to you will never stop chasing you even when you play a little bit hard to get. It is natural in men. But if he has stopped chasing you or even trying to do certain things to make you happy, this is another warning sign he won’t commit to the relationship.
Related: Signs he’s a player in disguise
10. Your mind tells you he won’t
The final sign he will never commit is that your instinct tells you so. You have the conviction that he’s not going to commit because of certain behaviors you’ve seen him display. Your instinct keeps telling you that this guy is a player and you shouldn’t trust him. For example, he constantly lies to you, cheats on you, and even abuses you. All these are warning signs he will not commit to you.
Related: Signs he thinks about you a lot
His actions toward you and your mind tell you he is playing with your emotion. For example, he has multiple girlfriends, he is still in love with his ex, and he doesn’t make you his priority.
How ready a man is for a serious relationship, your attitude toward him which determines how he feels about you, and his friends’ or family members’ opinion about you are the 3 main things that trigger a man to commit to a woman.
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